What You Must Know When Seeking Help For Domestic Abuse

The Battered Womens Movement and ClinicalI have since learned that this is understandably so,
Psychology are as far apart as the North andespecially for women residing in domestic violence
South Pole. Yet, many people outside of theseshelters. It is estimated that roughly 95% of
circles/disciplines believe domestic abusewomen going through the abuse shelter system
treatmentand advocacyare sub-specialties of thewill be certified (i.e. blessed with a psychiatric
practice of psychology. Not at all so!diagnosis) by virtue of their navigating the mental
After I fled from the danger I lived in Chicago, Ihealth care systemwhile in route to safetyas a
retreated into a life of solace and wrote All Butsurvivor of domestic violence.
My Soul: Abuse Beyond Control. Creating thatThis truly disturbed me, as a practicing
publication was the most amazing experience ofpsychologist and domestic abuse survivor. Even
my liferight up there with the birth of a child. Itmore disturbing was the fact that I could find little
was my fourth child.to no domestic violence curricula offered in
With the enthusiasm of a child, I approachedpsychological training.
individuals in the domestic violence arena, eager toIn no way am I suggesting that one not seek the
share what I had learned and produced in theservices of domestic abuse advocacy; to the
manuscript. Initially, I was not received well andcontrary. I strongly believe in the work of
couldnt understand why, until an individual fromdomestic abuse advocates. However, I recognize
the inner circle of the Battered Womensthat when utilizing domestic abuse advocacy, one
Movement shared the inside politics with me.must be mindful of the importance of also
You will have a hard time breaking into this line ofsecuring the expertise of a mental health
work," she said, "because you are a psychologist.professional, authentically knowledgeable in
Funny thing is I thought this was my asset, untildomestic violence.
she helped me realized it was my liability amongThe front line treatment for domestic violence
battered women.and the actual practice of professional psychology
She explained that historically the psychologistsare truly as far apart as the automotive industry
were used in re-victimizing survivors of domesticand the practice of dentistry. I vowed to commit
abuse at the bequest of their perpetrators. Andmyself to helping bridge this huge knowledge and
over the years, actually decades, they becameservice gap.
the enemies of battered women.